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(#2855) by S-5/7/11<3
never felt that way i feel the same!

the girl that I love, (my girlfriend) is constantly upset. By me. We"ve been together 8 months and she is the most perfect being i have ever seen. Our relationship was perfect at first but as time went o I seemed to fuck up more and more. The more I fuck up the more we argue. I know she'll always forgive me for the stupid little stuff, which is all i do, and she wont leave me. She forgives me, but I hate myself for hurting her. and upsetting her. Its started to happen all the time, its like every other day I do something stupid and she gets upset.Like I said, she forgives me, but I love and care for her so much that I hate myself for it, and hate how cant seem to help it or keep it from happening. She deserves better. For me to be better. And I can't seem to get better.

patrika writes... Perhaps you need a break, so that you can get to where you need to be... or a deep convo, something that assure her that you dont hurt her again. 'Cause the more you frustrate her, the more complications it will lead to in the relationship, even down the road. She will begin to see you as a man without good sense of judgment, so you need to prove to her (and more importantly: YOURSELF) that you are doing everything in the means of progression. No one is perfect, mistakes will occur, but as long as you refrain from repeating that mistake–only then will it make a difference. You sound young, you'll get better in time.
patrika writes... "...something that will assure her that you won't* hurt her again." (sorry for the typo) But really, when she sees you moving forward, she will have less to complain.
ehh....... writes... Tell her this. Tell her how much you want to not hurt her. Try to find someone to help you.